When young people fall in love, and then get married, it, for sure, even not admit of the severance of relations in the foreseeable future. Those, who has already passed the procedure of divorce, know, how hard can it be experienced. When a husband drinks vodka, it is difficult to plan for the future.
One of the common causes of failure in marriage is alcohol abuse. It would be possible to close eyes to the passion of her husband of alcohol, if not for the following circumstances:
- deteriorating physical and mental state drinker;
- suffering family budget – instead of, to bring home the money the husband spends on drink them;
- constant scandals, which often end up, more recently recognized in the love of a man starting to get handsy.
Desperate woman sees no other way out of the situation except, how to dissolve the marriage, in the hope that, that her life will finally be peace and prosperity.
Possible, not all so is hopeless in terms of deliverance of her husband from alcohol addiction? The wife should decide for themselves, what and who is most important to her.
All are caused by the spouse of the hurt and pain couldn't destroy the love, she's still blazing a weak spark in the heart of the second half. Opportunities to save a lot: you can try not only traditional methods of medicine, but alternative, credible traditional healers. The main thing – determination to bring family relationships back on track and readiness for long-term treatment.
Any requests, no entreaties, even in the form of an ultimatum does not help. No prospects, buried the last hope for the, that husband ever get out of the binge. Nothing else, how to put an end to family relationships.
In almost all cases, alcoholism is born and develops according to the standard scheme. First, beloved is a home at the end of the day in a drunken stupor. Next, and not come home. A response to criticisms annoy the missus – the use of physical force. In the morning, when restored clarity of mind, the guilty man begins to repent, vowing never to get drunk. Their behavior explains the prevailing circumstances.
Wife to mentally return to the past: have any addiction to alcohol in the first days after, create a cell of society? It is useful to explain, why the change in the, who should become a hope and support. And can still, as is often the, it happens, wife unwittingly somehow provoked the appearance of addiction?
If every day to "cut", they say, stupid, frivolous, etc., the person sooner or later he will have complexes, remorse. Drunk a shot of vodka, of course, for a while calm, create an illusory fun atmosphere, confidence, but later it will be difficult to stop and will end voraciously.
How should a wife act? In the first place, you should offer this alternative to alcohol, which will benefit the family. Second, the wife should see himself in third-party opinion. Possible, she'll discover self-esteem issues, lack of self-esteem, or neglect your appearance.
What to do if the struggle for happiness is a hopeless undertaking? In this case, self-respecting woman is not worth it to waste energy, trying to help her husband, an alcoholic to become a man, and it is better to take care of their health and further personal life.
But here comes one important factor. Not each woman, who decided on the divorce, fails to overcome his shame, which artfully manipulated their irresponsible and weak-willed men. The decision must take into account the fact, what have to choose one of two:
- To live in human society, which is stale, to tolerate violence against them, showdown. Live in hope, that a miracle will happen, it goes away.
- To overcome fear of loneliness and freedom, devoting himself to exciting business and the care of children.
Wife will have to stock up considerable patience, to get a spouse from alcohol dependence.
On the way divorce should not become romantic memories of mutual love.Probably, before, how to become addicted to alcohol, the husband was caring suburbia., provided the native people financially. To throw such a man, it would seem, should be regarded as a manifestation of ingratitude.
The fear to put a close person mental injury creates the risk of never from escaping, remaining in the role of hostage the constant promises. To avoid this from happening, care should be a surprise to Tirana, almost like a bolt from the blue. All questions, concerning the divorce process, will the lawyer.
The majority of the fairer sex, a characteristic intolerance of loneliness. It is therefore quite understandable sense of loss for some time after the divorce. And it must somehow regroup and begin to live a new life. Who better than a qualified psychologist will be able to withdraw from this state, to convince, that life just came to a new level, where outlines encouraging prospects.